I want to breakup with my boyfriend. A little bit of back story

We've been together for 3 years now and we also have a child together that's 9m . I've been feeling like this for awhile now (more so after I gave birth) and have expressed my feelings numerous times but we're still together. Our relationship has had PLENTY of downs more than ups. Even with that I feel as if I can't get away. Anything he does irritates my soul. I don't agree with the way he lives his life and the decisions he makes. We recently decided that we were going to have our own places and then go our separate ways. In the midst of that my family moved to a city where he knows a lot of people. We came to visit and now he wants to move there together. On top of that we have no money to move and we only have one source of transportation which is my car. Since he decided to spend the last of his money on a motorcycle. I'm feeling stuck and lost, I want to move closer to my family because if I continue to live where I do now I have no one and I'll be several hours away from everyone and unhappy but if I do move he'll be several hours away from our child and left with no where to live since he's living with me. AITAH because I want to breakup with him?

Feel free to ask more questions to understand more because there's way more lore to our relationship.