I have a brother who’s a few years older than me. My whole life , he’s been verbally abusive, steals things, lies constantly , takes drugs . My mom always defends him because he has ADHD. I don’t think that’s an excuse.

He and I were smoking weed at some point. I didn’t have money and I was going through a tough break up. He’d go through weird ramblings and progressively get more aggressive with his words towards me till I couldn’t take it anymore. During him yelling I dropped the weed infront of him to walk out and smoke what I had in peace.

He comes after me yelling that I should pick it up or get my weed else where. I calmly choose the elsewhere option. There’s a few moments of silence while I smoke then he launches at me grabbed my face (there’s still marks around my mouth) he pushes me down and starts hitting me repeatedly in the face while he grabs and squeezes my boobs. I yell for help someone comes up and he leaves stealing my lighter.

I told my family what happened. Pointing out how unusual the boobs part is. Especially knowing him, he has a tendency to walk-in to rooms id be naked in like the bathroom or my room when I’m changing. Not in a panic oh I’m sorry way either. He’s also a fan of Andrew Tate. My family said it’s my fault for smoking weed with him and still lets him come home and hang around me.

Anyway , after going on a drinking and drug bender with some friends (which he initially said he stayed one night and he was drugged) come to find out he chose to drink and do drugs and stay over for two nights. He says there are scratches on his butt, that he can feel his hole going out, he was asualted by the men he was with. Mind you my poor mom who has high blood pressure already gets a call from his landlady that he’s paranoid , holding a knife and walking around shirtless. We had to go to the hospital at midnight in our not so safe country.

For the doctor to tell us that the knife scratches , are just regular rashes. And that there’s no sign of sexual assault . Mind you he told everyone I mean literally everyone about this, the uber driver, security guards at the apartment and hospitals, the doctors and nurses who aren’t even working on him.

I personally think he just went on a drug frenzy for attention and sympathy since he’s actually meant to be end of the month for being unclean and disrespectful to the landlady for months now.

My worry is my mom tells him to stay with us. He’s at the hospital now because I personally went to speak to his doctor to tell them I think he’s mentally unwell.

I know hanging my boobs grabbed and being walked in on and all isn’t nearly as horrific as rape. And I’ve always been one to say believe victims , but honestly I think he’s just an attention seeking, narcissistic, abuser.