Makes me sound dirty but let me explain:

Met this guy on an app, very handsome, respectful, generous, very into me. I liked him too. Spent some time together and soon ended up regularly having sex. His most irritating habit is that he is always late and I mean really late. We met up maybe 20ish times and he was on time only once, I remember because I was so surprised. First date he was an hour and a half late. He was coming from 45 mins away and didn't know the area and I appreciated that he was coming to a location close to me so I wasn't too bothered. But lateness continued usually 1 to 2 hours late. When I confronted him about this his excuse was that he was cleaning his place in case I wanted to come over after or he was shaving his head and noticed he missed a spot. He also mentioned he always showers twice a day. What really started to bother me was that when we were done having sex he would immediately get up and go into the bathroom to clean himself up. I mean he would usually pass me a washcloth first (not always) , but then he would go into the bathroom for maybe 15 mins. He didnt have a shower in his bathroom and always complained about that so I imagined he was trying to fully bath himself in the sink. I told him I didnt like this. That it felt like he was just fucking me and then immediately getting up and walking out the door with no time spent together afterwards. He finishes and then hes just gone closing the door behind him, leaving me by myself. Its also annoying because Im not able to use the restroom until hes done.When I said this he seemed understanding (hes a good listener and tries to be thoughtful and understanding) but basically said “sorry I didnt think about that. But do you really just want to lay there sticky?” After that he started doing the exact same thing except with the bathroom door half open so I could kind of see him(I guess he thought that would make me feel less alone?). But still in there 15 mins or so. Maybe half way through I would join him in there wiping myself down but what I really wanted to do as far as cleaning myself up I didnt really want to do with him there in the bathroom. And ultimately my point was that I wanted some couple time after sex. I ended up breaking up with him, because I felt like he was too meticulous about everything and it made me uncomfortable. I would never be able to meet up with him without a fresh-shaved cooch but I felt like he was always shaved bald himself. He said he showers twice per day so I guess I have to too because if I haven't showered in 14 hours that might not be up to his standards (Im usually freshly showered for our dates, Im just imagining about a serious relationship and domestic life together). His meticulousness seems to be what always made him late to everything too. Almost missed an event I was excited about waiting for him. Is this a silly thing to break up over?