Preface: My Wife is the most wonderful, kind, and loving person I have ever known. However, we view things very differently as far as recognition “Holidays” like Father’s Day and my Birthday. First off, Father’s Day to me is absurd. I did nothing, except be there and try to help comfort her while she built my two wonderful and beautiful children. And she always wants to celebrate my birthday, but I heave no desire to be celebrated it. I was born deceased for 10 minutes and nothing positive has happened for me around that date. I wish it would go unmarked, and have asked for years that we do so. However, she is so kind she always plans something and it makes me uncomfortable. Should I continue to pretend to enjoy it if only to appreciate her happiness?