hey i’m just wondering if i am in the wrong here. my bf broke up with me about 6 months ago and told me he doesn’t love me anymore and that he was speaking to someone else as of last month. the other day i got with an old friend, we were both drunk and i feel bad about it. the next day my ex boyfriend messages me and tells me that he feels that we are soulmates and are going to get back together in the future. he has been saying some stuff like this every now and then and not fully letting me go but im not sure if he meant it or not but this time he said he was genuine and told me he didn’t tell me before as he didn’t want me to get my hopes up. we were both depressed which is why we broke up (i think). i just feel like a big hypocrite as i was getting upset that he told me he liked someone else and then i sleep with someone else which i have never done before in my life. i’m not sure if i should tell him even though he broke up with me and we are no longer together but i know that he hasn’t got with anyone else and it feels wrong to keep this from him? am i the asshole for this or am i not in the wrong? i told the guy i slept with that i am still in love with my ex and im sorry that it happened and he understood but i just can’t believe it i feel like such a sl*t for this. i love my ex deeply and would never have done this if i was sober. what do i do?