So I came across a post on another sub this weekend where a guy had suspicion his wife was cheating. He installed a ring camera and confirmed it. She is banging the 18yo neighbor. And he had it on video. The problem was that he was immensely turned on by it. I am in no way condoning cheating. She deceitful and she cheated on this poor guy. And he was SUPREMELY turned on by the sex. Not the lying. I dm'd him a LONG TIME. AMThe guy hadn't slept in a month and had no inner peace. Full disclosure I'm a swinger and I understand the emotional roller coaster. I recommended he write all his feelings down, show his wife one of the videos and have a conversation of their future and his emotional reaction to seeing them together. They have a young child together. She DARVOd him and I'm wondering, was my advice bad? Should I have done. The reddit thing and just recommended divorce? AITAH