Hello everyone, first time here, so I don’t know exactly how it works. I need some advice. My sister has been lying to us for 2 years. We live in a small country (Albania), not wanting to go into details about Albania but you should know that here life is not as in USA or Western Europe. My family has always worked hard and raised us with values, my sister ( 21) was always the calm child, a calm teenager, and after she started university she moved to the capital city, my parents paid for everything, she had everything. Every weekend for the past 3 years she came home, always helped my mom and dad at home chores and even at their work. So we never suspected for anything. These past 2 days has been hell for us. She stole from my other sisters house all the gold she had, she used her name and mine to take credit from banks, she disappeared for 2 days and we had no idea what happened, we were beyond worried and shocked. We found her at last, and all she said to us was that she had dropped out of university after the first year and all the money she spent just for fun and stupid stuff. She doesn’t wear extravagant clothes. In fact she has a simple style. She doesn’t have a boyfriend or friends at all. Please if anyone has a similar experience please tell me what to do with her. Or some advice for us. Does it have to do with a personality disorder or anything. We want to help her. I know I didn’t tell most of the things, but i can answer any question you have. Sorry for my english. And thanks to everyone who takes time to read this and reply.