I (25F) made my boyfriend (26M) mad because I let a (45M) homeless man take a shower at my place. Let's call him C.

A little context. I live in a city with a serious homeless problem. They don't really have access to hot water and summer is coming.

The homeless people, especially men, in this city tend to save the day by protecting the women going home after clubbing. Yesterday, I went to the supermarket to get some dish soap. I decided I would get three beers since I would go live on loyalfans, I'm an online Domme, basically I womanhandle people online. (This is important). I was supposed to go live with my best friend.

I sat in front of my building and started drinking a second beer. A man was asking a couple for money so he could buy a beer. I called him over and told him he could have one. We just sat there and talked and I put one piece on my phone for him.

I eventually asked him if he wanted me to get him a beer at a bar. He kinda hesitated but eventually said yes.

He mentioned something about a shower, and I told him he could take one at my place. He had no idea I lived so close.

I would have offered a shower too if I had been sober.

I sent a message to my boyfriend to let him know. And I told him I was going to a bar with C.

Little context: we had a fight two days prior to this. I'm mad at him because of a lot of things, especially him going to his friend's place and staying there from 7pm to 2 am on my birthday. He knew we had plans, but he just thought we would do it another time. Pretty sure he was playing mario kart with her. I don't know if he's brave enough to cheat on me, but that wouldn't surprise me if he did. He also lived rent free at my place and didn't do shit during the 6 months when he was unemployed. Only played video games and slept. No washing the dishes. I was the one cleaning. I had to beg him not to play at night because he would wake me up by talking and I had to get up in the morning to.... Work?

He doesn't live at my place anymore. I knew I had to go live since it's my new job now (I started when I was 18), but I thought it could wait, because the dude really needed a break. He's 45 and he's been homeless for 27 years.

I don't usually trust people, I have PTSD. I've had bad stuff happen to me before, but it happened in seemingly safe situations. And when I'm in a high-risk situation, nothing bad happens. So I told him he could sleepover. I wouldn't have slept much anyway. He told me he could just sleep in the corridor.

My boyfriend came to the bar without telling me. I eventually told him that I told C he could stay at my place. He lost his shit.

I told C he could sleep in the corridor. My boyfriend and I were going home to talk. C eventually went somewhere but he left some stuff at my place.

My boyfriend was really mad, and the fact that I was two beers under didn't help. I'm a lightweight and I didn't drink alcohol for over two years. I would laugh at stuff, not at him, but at stuff. I laughed when he said that what I did was the equivalent of what he did when he went to that girl's place. He said I broke his trust and that it was like cheating.

I asked him if he was breaking up with me. He said yes. Then no.

Then he asked me about the loyalfans live. I told him I wasn't doing it. Then, the little shit tells me "I want you to tell me exactly what happened."

He thought I told C too sleepover at my place and to take a shower so that I could go live with him and do stuff to him.

I told him that if anyone would cheat on anyone in this relationship, it would be him. I then called my best friend so that she could tell him that wasn't the plan. It would have been our first live together. Then he told me I could have died. Then I laughed because it was funny how he thought it was more important to think about me cheating than me dying.

Anyway. My grandma was homeless in Paris when she was 12. It wasn't the bestest of times.

I sued my boss so I don't have a job anymore. I'll get unemployment but I don't have much money.

A beer, a shower, and a place to sleep is something I can do.

So, am I the asshole. I think I'm the asshole for telling C he would have to sleep in the corridor.

Tldr : told a homeless man to shower at my place, then offered to let him sleep in my kitchen. Boyfriend mad, said I broke his trust.

Also he said that I was lucky he wasn't his dad cause he would have beaten the shit out of me 😂