I need to know if I ATA here. I am a 42F married to 47M. We have a 2F together. I am a full time student,( last semester of Uni) FT mom ( no childcare) and my husband works away a week at a time. We own a business that requires us to work on our time off but we have started to hire staff to offload some of the time commitment. My husband has very high expectations, I do all the cooking, cleaning, appts, pets. I have been mentioning that I feel overwhelmed and need a break. Yesterday 2 reached up on the counter and the stack of dishes I was about to wash fell and smashed, breaking 6 dishes. I cleaned them up and when I did this is where I may be the AH, I yelled I need a fucking break from this life. It wasn’t my finest hour and I still finished the dishes and went to school. My husband isn’t talking to me and I’m still doing all the childcare, which is totally fine, I knew what I signed up for with a baby but I need to know if IATA in this one.