So my friend (F 38) and I (F 34) did a girl's weekend trip together. She wanted me to invite a friend wine tasting so I did. Then we ended up meeting a group of girls while wine tasting. The entire time my friend was talking negatively about me & when one of the girl's would say something positive about me my friend would diss it and say it wasn't true. At this point the girls were a bit turned off by her.

But we all decided to go to a bar together afterwards and it was all fun at first. But the girls came up to me at seperate occasions to tell me my friend was talking bad about me. Also that my friend was trying to steal two of the girl's guys. And then later on my friend got into a fight at the bar & no longer felt comfortable so she wanted to leave to our hotel.

This is were everything went down hill I decided I didn't want to leave with her because I was upset. She took it as me abandoning her and not being a good friend. So she didn't give me access to the hotel room or to my belongings. I had to beg until she decided to pack up my stuff and leave it at front desk. Which she didn't pack all my stuff. She called me every name in the book and that she hates & despices me. And blocked me.

So I'm not sure if I should feel like the ass or if she's gaslighting me to feel that way. I would never talk negatively about anyone and definitely not a friend. And just to add something she's left me alone at bars to go home with men plenty of time. And I've never gotten mad at her or felt she's abdoned me. I just go home simple as that.