me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year now, and we have a relativley good and healthy relationship. we have our ups and downs like every relationship does. my biggest, and possibly only, issue with him is that he will get so angry with me when i mention another man, and it could be anything from me talking about a guy in my class doing something funny, or telling him about something my step-dad did. litterally no matter what he gets pissed off, yells at me about his boundries, and completeley shuts down. i usually just move on, he has trust issues, i get it. but recently its gotten sm worse, i just got a job, been there about a month. im a waitress at a small family owned diner. i work with a few male servers, and we have a fe w older gentlemen that come in often (they tip really well) my boyfriend hates this, he doesnt understand why i have to work with other guys, or serve other men. he says that i "belong to him" and hes "the only one allowed to look at me or touch me". its getting really draining, i cant even talk about my day becuase if i tell him about anything i did in the vasinity of a male, he'll get pissed off. so i just started ignoring him, i havent responded to him in like 2 days, hes been blowing up my phone, saying mean shit, calling me a whore, slut, cunt and a cheater. i dont want to hurt him like this and i feel like a terrible person, its js so draning talking to him.