Lately I’ve been noticing that I’m losing feelings for my girlfriend. Calling her feels like a chore, and I’m just not as happy to be with her as I once was. Idk if this is just the honey moon phase ending or what. But my gym buddy, who I think I have feelings for, just broke up with her boyfriend. Whenever I work out with my gym buddy it’s always fun, and we always joke and laugh. I do realize there is a bit of an age gap between gym buddy and I. Am I the a**hole for feeling this way? If anybody has been through something similar I’d like to hear any advice or suggestions. Thanks!