AITA My ex and I broke up very recently (last week). I won’t go into details about our relationship and I’m gonna try to make as much sense out of this as possible, but last night I wanted to call him and have one last conversation about us and how I felt before he went to court (he went to court today) and assuming he’d be going to jail after his court hearing today, but I don’t know for sure.

There was only one social media where he didn’t have me blocked on so I reached out. I asked him to unblock my number so I could call him. He didn’t want to unblock me to call me so we just texted about it, which I was kind of irritated about but I don’t have the energy to care anymore. We had a talk about how I don’t want anything to do with him anymore because of the trauma he has put me through for 7 months (said in the nicest way possible), and we wished eachother well.

He has had me blocked/unadded on every social media including my number, and after our conversation I unadded him on the last social media we could communicate on. I figured we wouldn’t be speaking anymore, he’d go to jail, and go about our lives after he gets out. (He’s going to jail for 4 months)

My problem is right now, after last night, I wake up this morning and see that 20 something minutes before I woke up he unblocked my number and called me. Assuming it was right before he had to show up in court. I haven’t called him back. I was thinking I could just text him to see what he needs because I care, but I’m trying to move on because I still have love for him and it just hurts to still communicate with him. Maybe I’m being petty, but if he refused to call me last night, why should I call him back or text him today? I don’t want to keep running back to him and giving him that satisfaction. But I also care so much, and I’m very torn.

Any advice is appreciated, and feel free to ask questions.