📝 Wibtah if I posted my ex’s belongings for sale

By Killmyselfsleeping • Score: 2 • April 8, 2025 12:09 AM


TRIGGER WARNING; emotional/verbal ab*se

About two months ago I (f31) kicked my (verbally and emotionally) absive boyfriend (now ex) (m28) out of my house. I gave him too many chances to count to change the way he treated me and my daughter (7) but despite literal months of trying to work things out and trying to help him grow (absolutely no coping mechanisms for negative emotions) he declined to put in any effort. Still after kicking him out I gave him time to try to prove that he was working on change. I helped him financially and with transportation from his job to (his uncles house) where he was staying. I finally decided (after the verbal and emotional abse continued) to go full no contact. I communicated with him about what items he had left at the house and that I would deliver them to him. He asked for very few things and I took them over-literally less than 2 days later his uncles landlord kicked them out (apparently the uncle was damaging the property and had a lot of unpaid back rent) and my ex informs me that I’d probably never hear from him again (could be true could be attempted manipulation) and I made sure that I checked again about left over items. He did not request anything else. The rest of his things that are at my house are taking up storage space and I won’t be contacting him again. So; WIBTAH if I posted the things (that someone may be interested in buying; kinda niche things—-think goth & pagan stuff) for sale online? WIB (less) TAH if I donated them instead or would you try to recoup some of the money you had financially helped with?

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