LAt first I said it wasn't ok but I was willing to believe they'd changed. But it was a shock and it didn't really set in till later. There are other things too. They've broken up with me twice and then begged to get back together. And at this point I barely even feel emotionally invested. They disregard my feelings and tell me I'm overreacting when I'm upset. One time I was in bed with them waking up and groggy from my sleeping meds and they started touching me inappropriately. I felt like I couldn't say anything because there was another person in the room. I don't remember if I did anything to encourage it. I keep thinking about these things all together and I've started to feel disgusted anytime they touch me. They use a lot of pet names and animal related forms of affection like patting me on the head. I used to like it but now it just feels gross. I don't know if I'm overreacting though. I do think that people can change, and they haven't done anything downright horrible in the time I've known them. Just been a bit less considerate of my boundaries than I'd like and sometimes kind of mean. I'm also really bad at communicating.