My friend and her boyfriend of a year are head over heels in love. They live together and she is constantly posting about it on social media. He is divorced and has 4 (!) kids, one under the age of 3. Recently, I asked how they met and she got all shy and said she didn’t like to talk about it, but that there was overlap between her and the wife. Now that I know this, not only am I not interested in being friends, but I’m like ummm, you lose them the way you find them. I don’t want to burst her bubble but I also want to shake some sense into her. AITA for not wanting to be friends with her, and should I say anything?

Oh, and he’s a firefighter. They are often known for infidelity.