This last has ruined my life. She has lied, abused me mentally, verbally and financially for most of our relationship. She is currently in custody of ice and has asked me when immigration calls that I should say something nice about her. But honestly there isn’t anything nice to say. She lies, she cheats, she steals and doesn’t even take care of her daughter when she is actually around. I’ve tried helping her numerous times and really she is just a pain in my side now. When she was around she never wanted to help just wanted to drink and party. I’m torn on if I should say she is a decent person or tell The truth.