Hey everyone I know this sounds crazy but it’s truly as it says in the title. My best friend of over 4 years wife just admitted to me that she had a crush on me and that I was her in her words “perfect man” and she said “if I met you earlier I think you and me would end up together and not me and beat friends name” and she kept going on about how much better I was. How she heard that I was good at s3x and that I was better well off in life and how I looked more like the men she’d go for. After she said this to me I was in shock because I was quite frankly disgusted and disappointed in her for these feelings and I know that’s probably wrong to feel that way with someone when they admit something like this but in my eyes she shot her shot and I wiped that shit away. Not only that but I haven’t told my best friend yet this is literally the next day I’m writing this and I’m just so mad at her because this is going to ruin not only their relationship but my friendship with my best friend and I know that. And not only that but they have a fucking kid together like seriously pissed me tf off because like why would you jeopardize your relationship friendship and family. Like I’m so pissed I’m trying to figure out a way to tell my best friend and I’m just struggling if I’m being quite honest with you.

What the f$ck do I do. No one I’ve talked to about this situation has known exactly what to do, the only thing I can think to do is tell my best friend and reap what’s owed I guess, oh and one final detail best friends wife told me not to tell my best friend about this situation but I know it’ll eat me alive if I don’t…. Am I the asshole if I tell my best friend?