📝 My friend is jealous of the time I spend with a new fwb

By p1ncush1onx • Score: 0 • April 19, 2025 2:53 AM


AITA? I started hanging out with this girl in January but we'd known each other for maybe 6 months prior through mutual friends. Once we started hanging out one on one we clicked really well and have hung out many times since. In March I started seeing a new guy and things are going well! The sex is incredible and we enjoy spending time together. This girl friend said she wanted to meet him a couple weeks ago, so he met up with us after we went out for drinks and we all hung out, it went great. But since then she told me over the phone that she feels like I prioritize him in my life and that makes her feel jealous towards him. I was reasonable and understanding over the phone but that's honestly such a turn off in a friendship for me. And then it continues tonight, me and her made plans for Sunday (literally just to smoke and hangout) but I also have to see my family during the day and my fwb wants to hangout that night. So I texted my friend, asked her schedule and said that we could hangout for 2.5 hrs and id drive the 25 min to her city so she didn't have to come to mine. She said yes but asked why and I told her I was just balancing with my other plans with the guy and my family, she said to take her off the schedule. I understand she's upset because she wants to spend more time with me but I also never devoted an amount of time to her, and I have priorities that stand beyond this one friendship that is not long standing. Is that reasonable? I see her at least 2-4 times a month, which is good for an adult friendship (and considering I have other friends, family nearby, and a needy cat to take care of by myself), but god forbid I see my guy and get dick twice a week

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