I am constantly being reprimanded for not realising my partner's sexual advances. Her mood shifts entirely becoming more distant, short fused and agitated. I constantly have this issue with her and she will only engage in sexual encounters with me if it's romantic. I am AuDHD and struggle to pick up on signs and when I don't I am punished emotionally for some time after. Even though in my partners eyes I shouldn't be because I was the one who rejected them in the first place. I feel like I'm going crazy because she has this victim mentality no matter how many times I'll tell her I didn't realise or it went over my head. I just feel like her reactions are way too intense and it ruins the rest of the day for her and I have to emotionally disengage so I can feel sane again after somehow doing wrong again. Any advice or understanding would be nice.