By Ordinary_Ask7943 • Score: 2 • April 16, 2025 7:04 AM
AITA if I don’t want a partner who posts thirst traps? Firstly i’ve never posted here before but I don’t have anyone to ask. For context I (26f) do not post on social media often especially in a relationship and if I do it’s nothing revealing as I find it odd and kinda disrespectful for either gender to seek out attention online. Just not my taste. My bf (26M) just recently like three days ago started posting on Tik Tok. His second post out of like five so far is a thirst trap collage of shirtless photos with a “can your vagina get too wet? here’s why” audio. These aren’t things he normally posts besides the gym selfie occasionally. He’s very good looking and fit and I don’t knock him for that his body is indeed amazing. My question is why would you start posting such things once in a relationship? All i’ve mentioned so far is “so we’re posting thirst traps now?” and that’s the end of it as of now as it was already late at night. I know lots of people post things like this on the internet, especially younger people, but I just find it distasteful. I don’t post these things myself nor do I have the urge to so is it wrong for me to expect a partner who thinks the same? Our relationship isn’t visible on his tik tok but it is on all his other socials / his pfp’s are of us on every app but tik tok. It just has struck me as odd. Recently he complained about my story replies to basic selfies on snap that I left unopened and asked that I remove those guys and I did and had no problem doing so as it was random people. Then not even two weeks later he does this? Could this be possible projection of his own guilt? I’ve never asked him to remove women off his socials, only one OF page from twitter when we first started dating.
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