I'll give some context. I F,19 at the time, BFF M 20 at the time, M 18 BFFs brother. Let's call my bff Jace, Jace and I were besties online for about 7+ years I fell in love with him and he knew. When I was 19 he called me up and he wanted to finally meet in person, I was broke at the time and he had a job so payed me to fly to him so I did. We had fun and I thought it was going good, but I came clean on how I felt and he said, he just wanted to have fun and didn't want anything serious with me because I am quote "To ugly to be anyone's girlfriend" and that he was madly in love with his ex girlfriend so I let it go, a week goes by and he says I can have his Xbox and tv, he worked to much and couldn't play games and I was greatful. Another week goes by and my dad sends me money and I buy Jace a bunch of stuff like shirts and cute things that he wanted but that wasn't good enough for him. A few days later his brother comes over and likes me, me and his brother have some "Fun" and he leaves then about a week later I need to go home so my dad comes to pick me up because it wouldn't be smart to fly with a tv and Xbox anyways so he comes to get me and I go home. About a month later my grandpa died from cancer so me my brother and father drive out of state to visit my grandma and family and by the time I get there Jace has disappeared from my snap. I asked my friend to message Jace on Facebook and ask him what I have done and he said, "You are different in person and your rude to people and you did it with my brother, he's a minor" for one I was never rude also 18 is an adult in the United States. My friend said it wasn't my fault and that he probably would have blocked me either way. I'd like y'alls options and try to be nice. Ps I cleaned his apartment when he was off at work and still complained that wouldn't do the dishes after I cooked but oh well. :/