Am I the asshole for having fantasizes about an ex from years ago out of nowhere because I had a sex dream about him while sleeping in my boyfriends arms? I can’t stop thinking about him now but he’s a family friend who I could not date again for the sake of family drama but feel like there’s chemistry with him everytime I see him. I have a good boyfriend but I don’t feel faithful in my thoughts. However I would never cheat on him if it got that far I would just break up with him if I was into someone else. Am I an asshole?