At first, it seemed like a simple gesture, but I soon realized she was avoiding being on video. Whenever we scheduled calls, she often refused to show her face, claiming her hair was messy or that she wasn’t feeling well enough for it.

Over time, our communication became one-sided. I tried to arrange meetups, but they were frequently canceled. On one occasion, she said she couldn’t go out because she had hurt her leg. When I suggested I might be treating her differently, she opened up about her past—how her ex-boyfriend had abandoned her and how she felt replaced by another man.

Indifference and Emotional Barriers After an incident where I nearly lost contact with her due to a robbery, her reaction was indifferent. She mentioned she wouldn’t message me unless I did so first. From then on, I felt the relationship growing more distant. In other conversations, she talked about her cats and nephews but seemed reluctant to share much about herself. She frequently said she was "embarrassed" or "couldn’t" do certain things, which left me unsure about what she truly wanted.

Attempts at Closeness and Mixed Signals
We tried going out several times. Once, I suggested the movies since she always said we never did anything fun. At first, she refused out of shyness but later agreed. During the film, we kissed and spent the afternoon together, but I noticed she wouldn’t let me see her phone or social media, keeping things very private. This frustrated me because it felt like she didn’t want me to know more about her personal life.

On another date, we went to a mall and later to a motel. There, she seemed embarrassed and asked to keep the lights off, which made me more aware of her insecurities. However, after a while, she relaxed and her mood shifted quickly, making the situation more comfortable for both of us.

Rejection and Confusion At one point, she made it clear she didn’t want me to meet her family, which left me questioning what was really happening between us. She also reacted badly when I joked about her "making a fuss" during her sister’s visit. This angered her and created distance between us.

The relationship continued to have ups and downs. Arguments arose suddenly, like when we fought over a game we played together. On one occasion, she got so angry she stopped playing, and communication became even harder.

The Party and the Final Breaking Point After more confusion about her intentions, she invited me to a party but later said she wasn’t going. Upset, I asked if she didn’t want my company and eventually decided to go anyway to clarify things. When I arrived, her sister saw me on the street and invited me inside. It was her friend’s party, and at one point, she introduced me as her boyfriend. But then, unexpectedly, she suggested I download a dating app to "find someone else," which left me uncomfortable.

Things grew even more complicated afterward. I went to her house, where she wanted me to stay, but I ended up leaving. The relationship felt increasingly confusing, and after a difficult conversation, I decided to break up with her. She reacted with sadness and promptly blocked me on social media.

Reconnection and More Doubts
Soon after, she reached out again, saying she missed me more than expected, and we tried to reconnect. However, I found her on a dating app, which upset me. When confronted, she claimed she was only looking for someone for her friend’s ex. This confused me further—she kept saying she loved me, but her actions didn’t match her words.

The Final Fallout After more misunderstandings, she invited me to her mother’s birthday party, but I didn’t go. Her mother called me to ask if I loved her, which made me uncomfortable. The situation remained tense, and she said her father was upset with me. Feeling pressured, I vented online. When she saw it, she accused me of deceiving and using her, saying her actions were driven by insecurity. She blocked me again and disappeared.