Me (F20) and my bf (M33) has been together for 6 months now. It was great in the beginning but after we got together he stopped taking me out. All we do every day is sit at home and do nothing. This bothers me a lot because I wanna go outside and do stuff like sit in a park and eat or just sit by the ocean and talk. But he doesn’t want that cuz of «anxiety» over his debt.

I tried talking to him about it but he said «I want to be productive and I don’t like the sun».

I’m also not physically attracted to him anymore, when we met he looked younger like he was 25 cuz he shaved his beard, he had shorter hair etc. Now his hair is longer than mine, constantly greasy and he looks like his age. Not really what I’m attracted to.. and on top of that, he’s hyper sexual compared to me. He’s constantly multiple times a day saying he wants to fuck me, «threatening» with fucking me if I like answer in a sassy way etc. like that’s the only thing he’s thinking about. It’s making me insane.

We’re supposed to find a place to rent in 2 months, but idk if I can do this. But also I’d rather rent with him and break up while living with him for a year than to live alone.. but that’s not the point.

Idk I don’t think he honestly has any bad intentions but I just don’t think we fit together if he can’t do anything I wanna do, just what he wants to do (sit inside all day long).

Any advice? What would you do?