So we've been together for almost 4 years, and the relationship has been mostly good, but recently we've been fighting a lot.

It got to the point where she asked me to move in to my own appartment, but like so that we'd still be together. So i got the flat, and am ready to go but now she says she doesn't want me to move, to which i responded that i will be going because i already started the whole moving thing. Now she's crying in the bedroom and i am fucking annoyed. Wtf should i do, i don't accept this kind of yo-yoing she's doing? AITAH?