I, 25m, haven’t been happy for months and my partner 27f can sense something is up. We haven’t been sleeping together as both of us feel pressured to initiate and both just aren’t that happy in general, she is putting in more effort to keep us going but I almost just want it to be over. We have a place we brought together and have been together for a while and in general just don’t want to upset her by ending things, wtf do I do and aitah if I leave here?