My best friend, K (30F), is pregnant with her first baby and she has a baby shower this weekend but lately things seem off. We use to talk everyday or if she couldn’t answer she would send a text but lately she hasn’t been answering her phone and hasn’t been texting back which is strange. I finally text her one day asking if we were ok or if I did something wrong and she texted back “I dunno I’m processing but I don’t want to do that while I’m pregnant. Just need space.” I texted back “okay. I’m sorry.” And she texted back “All good. I’m sorry too.” The fast forward to today (Thursday) I have Friday off and our mutual friend (B) is in town and B is staying with me. I texted them together and asked if we could all get together tomorrow or Sunday to hang out and she said that she doesn’t have any time. I feel like I’ve done something wrong and I feel like she doesn’t want to see me. I wish she could just tell me what’s going on but I don’t want to push her while she’s pregnant and I don’t want to be annoying, I just really miss her but I also don’t want to go to the baby shower if I’m not wanted there. Everyone says I would regret not going but I also don’t want her to be uncomfortable if I’m there so I need advice on what I should do.

I also already have her gift and I worked really hard on it, it’s a basket full of baby little stuff that she wanted and diapers and wipes, that I can’t return.

Also I have no idea what I could have done. I wish I knew. The only thing I can think of is maybe I was asking too much about the baby or maybe annoyed her. She’s still talking to our mutual friend about stuff. It feels like it’s just me that’s she’s pulling away from.