AITA for still trying to stay with husband after all that he has done? As we already know me and my husband are going through it. He has officially started smear campaign between me and our mutual. I know that’s I have to stay calm. He is still very confusing. Hot and cold. Affectionate and cold. Says we are breaking but then says we are cool. Touches me and jokes like nothing happened. I don’t care what ppl say but I get urges to defend myself when I know it makes it worse. I want to still be with him. I take accountability to my mistakes but how can I make it better? What are you doing in this situation? Please help