My son lives a few cities away and he is proposing and I invited to view the proposal. I was even involved in hearing the ideas on how he'd like to propose. I didn't expect to be there for it though. I am not the kind of mom that is overbearing. I just listened. I was invited to view the proposal. At first he said I could take him and his fiance out to dinner the day after but that was quickly rescinded a few days later. But I was not invited to the after party, or allowed to host a reception, meal etc. I was told to show up for the proposal and then leave. All intimate family was allowed to watch the proposal (and only the immediate family) and leave. AITAH for feeling hurt. I cried the whole day. He also said I could hang out the day after but so could everyone else who was his friend and going to the afterparties. We never had a bad relationship or had he excluded me this way so I'm very confused. What went wrong? I did not make any demands. He created this scenario with his fiance.