Hello guys I am honestly wondering about this. So my mom and dad just got a divorce. I'm 25 years old, I know I still live with my parents I suck. Anyways so before we moved out my dad and I said we needed to find a place to heal. Away from the toxicity of negative women and drama. My mom's been very manipulative and has done everything that a woman should not in a relationship. Anyways before we moved out we made a deal that there would be no b****** and no booze. Because these two things only bring negativity into our life. So we move into a hotel, we make that promise. Within weeks he's hanging around with this lady who's an alcoholic with four children and spending all his time over there. He tells me he's going for walks but in reality he's going and getting drinks with her. Lying to my face then admitting it. He spent over $350 in our food stamp money on her in less than a week. I literally went hungry for a while eating bread. She helps us out like give them a ride to work and lets him stay at her place. He's constantly buying her food filling her gas tank and getting her alcohol. I tell him that he can get better than her because she gives off ex tweaker energy. And he gets mad at me calling me judgmental. So am I the a***that I am made to feel like I am for calling him out on this b****and for not sticking to his promise. I understand I am 25 years old should have a place of my own, but I have extremely bad mental health problems which I am working on every day to heal. I literally just want the best for him and don't understand why he's become reliant on her. Like this is our time to figure out our life and Future but this random girl comes into the picture within weeks and throws it off. He's spending all his time over there and I'm alone 90% of the time. I don't know what I'm going to do with my future he promises that it's not going to be a long-term thing, but literally there close. Should I just not worry even though it hurts me, do I have a right to feel this way? Should I accept her although I don't want her in my life. I don't make any money at my job so I literally can't afford my own place there's no options in this town. 15$ an hour as a single person I feel like I'm fucked.