I just got a text from my other SIL that she and my youngest SIL (the brat) have bought some stuff for my baby girl and I am absolutely NOT going to accept it. They sent the pictures to my husband that they have bought things and after two,three days my other SIL shared the pics in our family group. I didn’t reply to the pics nor did I react to it but then she saw me online and texted me privately, “Did you like the frocks, and things we got for (my baby girls name)?” I have left her on seen because she knows that I will not be accepting anything that has any kind of relation with my youngest SIL’s money. I want nothing to do with her neither does my child.

And she has confirmed that my youngest SIL and my other SIL have combined their money and got stuff for my child.

I told my husband strictly that I will not be accepting anything from her and he was ok with it that you do you. But after they texting him personally I saw his reply where he said nice and these look good! Even though he knows I won’t be accepting them.

They are still expecting me to just let things GO and forget everything just because time has gone by…

Please tell me how do I handle this situation and how do I put my foot down for everyone to know I am seriously not interested in maintaining any ties with this woman.