This happened in 2013 where I was 25. I had a good friend named al 26. We met though a shared hobby a few years earlier but became very close firends. She one of the few people i considered a brother. We went to my first comic con together and I remember when he lost his badge before The last Day I gave mine away to send the next day with him at his place. We very othen hung out at his place on the weekends and I met his mom. When ever we hung out in a group if I did have money to eat he would cover me so when I would have money I would cover him to. He lived in a small apartment with him mom sister and cousin. His room wasn't that big. Early in 2013 he introduced me to his new girlfriend. She would hang out with us when she would visit cuz she lived in another state. He would othen talk to me about the relationship and at one point she added me on Facebook where we did talk every now and then. She wasn't really that great for him to be honest like I remember one time me him and another hung out on a night he was supposed to video chat with her but we were a bit late getting back and got lost going back so she got mad at me and had to apologize to her over a call. She was a bit controlling as far as I could tell but I never said anything cuz it wasn't my place. After about a year he proposed to her and ask her to move in with him in his small room. He gave her and ultimatum to day yes or they are done. This was a bad idea but I never said anything cuz again not my place. On a friend she hit me up to talk about the situation. I tried to stay out of it but my curiosity and willingness to hear people problems got the better of me. I was sure not to tell her anything negative about him and even encouraged her to day yes if her only issues were what other people think. This was also the weekend I had to deal with some girl troubles my self so I was preoccupied when he hit me up pissed off cuz she had said no. He blamed me cuz for some reason she mentioned she talked to me however I chose not to respond right away. If he just needed someone to hate at the time I was fine that being me plus the troubles I mentioned. On the Monday I talked to him and he was no longer blaming me but was mad I talked to her. I apologized but made it clear that I felt I didn't do anything wrong. The talk was about the situation not him so I was talking behind his back. I also told him I was even trying to ster her to a yes. We ended it by him telling me I had to earn his trust back. Our friendship was never the same after that. Not that we don't still talk these many year later but it's not what we used to be only talking on line once in a while. So I wonder was I the ass hole for taking to her?