I 21/f and my 26/m bf have been in a 4 month relationship and just moved to Iowa for the first time and only know each other for 2 to 3 months before moving and when we were talking everything was great but now I don’t know and he anyways telling me I should listen to him I do but not all ways because I’m 21 I shouldn’t be told what to do and listen and he anyways telling me let him use the bathroom because I like to go in there when he using it for a long time and I do let him I manly laying in bed when he using the bathroom and we r anyways home he like he has no time ever to relax but we r home 24/7 and he gets mad if I want to go out for a drive

Almost forgot to mention this when we first started talking his ex gf was still living with him and told me he didn’t care about her and he told her to leave multiple time before she actually did leave before we moved

And my dog is my baby I cried so many time when my bf hit my dog and he yippie and I’ve had my dog longer than my bf and I love my dog more than him if I had to chose

I told him he could punish my dog if he was bad and my bf hit him like hard and not just a spank but he has used his dog rope to hit him and my dog bit him one time and my dog has never bit anyone except him and me and he anyways joke about killing him and how he a rat and I want to move to Dallas tx and I want to start dog grooming there and he want to go to Colorado I don’t and we r working but we always leave early he always asked me to leave early but if I say no let’s leave at 6 the time we get off he said no and we are always door dashing food and he never want to cook dinner it’s only sometimes we eat food in the fridge he has never hit me but I feel like I don’t want to be in a relationship anymore and he told me I could leave to go back home if I want to and I feel like I’m losing my self and gaining more weight what do I do