My best friend (late 20s) has recently started organizing her wedding with her boyfriend (early 20s). It’s the only thing she talks about, and I get it. It’s a big change, and I don’t really want to interfere because I think they know best.

The problem is: I don’t think it’s the right decision. They’ve been together for a little more than a year, and decided to live together three months after starting dating, so it was all pretty fast. That’s not a problem, as relationships and times are different for everyone, but… they’re always arguing. Always. For the littlest thing to the biggest. I think he’s too immature and distracted in life, while she’s too sensitive. So he makes a lot of mistakes here and there, and she’d get hurt. She makes a mistake and he would get hurt. And then they will start arguing - yelling, throwing stuff, punching walls (both of them, not just him - I want this to be clear). I often told her to leave him, as I don’t think it’s the right person and both of them take out the worst of one another. But “he’ll change” and “she’ll change” are the best responses, so after I while I just distanced myself from this relationship.

My best friend keeps on talking about the wedding, sending me pics, and I’m supposed to be the MOH. I admit I have not said anything until now because I honestly thought it was some dream they had, but the decided a date and everything.

So, WIBTA if I talk to my best friend and tell her I don’t think it’s a good idea?