šŸ“ WIBTA if I call out my co-worker for lying about details regarding his life ?

By DependentDull4000 • Score: 5 • April 11, 2025 3:07 AM


I (M24) have a job that requires us to be away from our family for sometimes months at a time, sometimes depending where we are at we can’t even contact home. Theirs predominantly men on our job too and recently we had a new guy join we will call him Jeff ( M20).

Apart of his introduction he tells us why he’s there and most guys have families and Jeff said he had a fiancĆ© that is currently pregnant with his son and how he’s terrified about accidentally missing the birth. He has said so many wonderful things about his fiancĆ© and basically said how shes the perfect partner and that she’s always down to do whatever with him and listens to him. He showed me a picture of his fiancĆ© and my initial thought was she looked really young but he told me she was 18 and they’re high school sweethearts. So I didn’t harp on it .

Fast forward to now we are on a break and we’re back home with are families for a bit and Jeff adds me on facebook and I add him back and I decided to creep and I do see his fiancĆ© and I clicked on her page but it’s like really private I couldn’t see no information. However I did see a post that his fiancĆ© was tagged in and I’m assuming the OP was her mom or relative, but the post said ā€œsending my little girl off to high school ughh why must they grow upā€ and the post was dated September 5th 2023… so if we do the math that would make his fiancĆ© a sophomore in high school and not 18 like Jeff said.

I have feeling he knows her age, but I’m In genuine shock about this revelation because of just the things he has said her including like their intimate life and the girl is pregnant… I really want to call him out and tell my co-workers / boss about this. But I’m thinking maybe I would be an AH so would I be an asshole and should I just mind my business?

Edit: I looked at that girls mom profile and she’s definitely atleast 15 I found a birthday post. For when she turned 13 in 2022 šŸ˜µā€šŸ’«

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