Before judging please read this post. Im asking this so im not being disrespectful/as respectful as possible.

So I (M20) am Living at home with my mom still and the reason is because I am in college and unfortunately where I live It is way too expensive to move out and hotels are super expensive too.

I'd say me and my mom are pretty open with each other, I can talk to her about quite a bit. I had asked her before if I ended up meeting/dating a girl and we became a couple, Would it be OK if she spent the night or stayed over and she said yes.

I've realized though, I am really not in a position to be dating right now. Money wise or at least I don't know if somebody would think of dating me in my position. I am not completely broke but If I was in a relationship all the dates would probably be cheap. Although I feel like I could probably be creative with them.

I know that just hooking up with a stranger would be rude, But I don't know if it would be rude if I hooked up with an actual friend kind of like a friend with benefits (as long as were being quiet). Again i'm not saying I am bringing in a New Girl every night. Literally, just like one friend.

Part of me thinks she would be okay with it as long as it wasn't a different girl every night or something like that, but idk what I should do.