Me and my boyfriend have lived together for 4 years now. Our apartment is small and there isn't an option for two beds.

My boyfriend is known to struggle to get up in the morning. Love nor money can get him to move. He has been able to make it work for the past few years as we have a very uncomfortable mattress. We got it second hand as that's all we could afford. The dents are deep and you will roll down to one side if you lie in the middle. A spring will be in your back and its just godawful.

We finally brought a new mattress a few weeks ago. Its amazing, we both love it.

My boyfriend is now struggling to get up in the mornings. He keeps sleeping in, being late for work, missing alarms. He is struggling in ways he hasn't struggled for years.

He wants to return the mattress and get an uncomfortable one again. Something really firm.

I put my foot down and said no. But this is negatively impacting his life in so many way. WIBTA if I made him continue to struggle with waking up?