By Otherwise_Peak_8309 • Score: 10 • April 10, 2025 2:16 PM
I'm about to put in my notice at work and the reason I'm quitting is like 80% because of a coworker (F30s). We work in IT and working with her is like death by a thousand cuts. I had an epiphany about her a year or so back when I finally saw through her.
Those were 8 points. I have 47 of these! Different scenarios, behaviors and moments that I started to write down as they happened because I couldn't keep them all in my head.
All these are small by themselves, but when they happen every day frustration really builds up. She was away sick for a few months and our workdays got easier because of it, even though our workload increased.
I should probably have addressed this earlier, but it snowballed so slowly that when I realized this, I had so many examples and I was afraid it would seem like I was bullying her.
I was talking with a friend about it and I told him I was planning to tell my boss exactly why I'm quitting, but he said it would be a bit assholish and won't matter to me going forwards anyway.
I would obviously put this forward to my boss in a polite and professional way. But should I even bother? Would especially appreciate answers from people in leadership positions.
WIBTA?
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