I (25 male) have a best friend (24 female) who recently got into a new relationship but as soon as she got into this relationship she's been crossing every single boundary of mine.

Some examples are like, asking her to her to notify me and my (23 female) sister who lives with us to let us know if he's staying the night because my sister has voiced that she's uncomfortable with not knowing he's here. On top of that, the first time he was here he came in drunk while my two nephews were staying the night. I didn't even know he was here until later THAT night when my older sister told me, not even my best friend told me.

Before moving in, I did ask her to be mindful of who she brings into the home, she agreed. I know her well, she enjoys hook ups.

Despite me asking her let us KNOW MULTIPLE times, she doesn't. Only when I lash out has she done it a few times. Then when I ask her to send him home because he's been here for almost a whole week and I just want some alone time to clean the house and not be worried about waking someone up early in the morning while everyone else is at work, she doesn't. Even though the night prior she agreed.

He will stay at the house for almost a week straight, go home for maybe 2-3 days and come back and stay again for a week straight. And he's basically here ALL DAY.

We're all in relationships.

I do not bring my partner over more than a night and rarely. By rarely I mean twice a year MAYBE. I always travel there. I SPOKE to both of them about my partner moving in and asked for both opinions before advancing with any plans.

My sister alternates with their partner. Usually three days at their house, sometimes more. And a few days here. Her partner is not here full-time and leaves often for work around 10-9 hours. My friend and I know this partner well, we've even vacationed with him as well.

She's only been in this relationship for 3-5 months. This has been going on for about over a month now.

So, WIBTA if I told my best friend that he's going to stay longer than a week here at a time that he has start paying rent?