My sister doesn’t like ordering her own food, whether we are at a restaurant, or getting a snack. She’s 12. I feel the urge to just leave and get food for myself and not get any for her because she won’t order it herself. I used to be the same way when I was younger, but I didn’t really have a choice since I’m the oldest and my parents barely spoke English. Yet my sister is very much capable of ordering her own food, but blames it on being shy. She can’t depend on others to always order her food and I find it annoying. Would it be too harsh to not get her anything and make her go hungry for not ordering her own food?