So a few days back My(25F) househelp started lecturing me in the kitchen food wastage and She said that how much it's hurts her to food getting wasted and my SIl agreed with it. though I am also against food wastage. it was 2-3 chapati's.

and it was not i threw the Chapati/paratha's in trash. i asked my HH to keep it ready. and i will eat an hour or so later it was in a secured food container (btw). and it happens during lunch only that i ask to make the meal kept ready. then failed to eat it sometimes because I was feeling nauseous and or it just slipped of my mind while engaging in doing something. And i understand that everyone has thier own way of worshipping god (like Jesus in her case) and (lord Shiva in my case).

but she often ignore and forgot things while being indulged in listening and reciting Christian hymns. and that day she could've easily given to me or my brother and mum or dad in the dinner. and as my dad often asks if any chapati's from previous meal (like breakfast of dinner) had left. because he loves to eat that kind of breads.

and so this morning when I was in kitchen to fill up my bottle and wash my clothes i noticed that there's was a plate with two bowls with filled with spinach and potatao vegetable dish in the kitchen sink. and when i asked my HH about the same she said that she didn't it with a smile.

so now who is the bigger AH here My HH or me and how's action was more inappropriate hers or mine?