So I (16F) have a friend (16F) who has recently got a boyfriend and they have been dating for two months. This whole situation has got me done as I have had a really bad couple of months. Me and my friend (I’ll call her friend 1) and another girl we are friends with have a hangout every couple of months as none of us live close. These are planned weeks in advance and there is no inconvenience for parents as I pick up and drop them off.

That being said, ever since Friend 1 got a boyfriend, she has lost two friends due to her not putting any effort. There has been three times i’ve realized that we have plans and she cancels on me bc her “mom said no” and then hangouts with her boyfriend instead.We have talked about it and she just brushes it off (like she did with the other two girls) and says I don’t understand because I don’t have a boyfriend. I have had one long relationship that effed me up big time, and i’m still unfortunately stuck on my ex, and while i was with him I still made time for my friends.

This past hangout, she told me that she can’t make it bc her mom said no again. Idk if she thinks i’m stupid, or if she just doesn’t want to be friends anymore but I can’t. I don’t want to stay friends with her, and have silenced all her notifications bc I feel like I will blow up on her if I text her.