so.. I (F22) met this guy (M23 I think) a while ago. we met at a social event and the next day he invited me for a coffee so we spent some time together, but then he immediately told me he was interested in dating me but directly added that we can also stay friends and see, if it happens it happens and if it doesn't it doesn't. I told him I wasn't interested in dating at this time but sure, we could be friends. since then I did always have his expectations in mind though plus I got busy again so we didn't really hang out anymore. the week after he told me to just forget his confession and to just stay friends and after that we barely even spoke anymore.

one situation I personally would a bit weird was how some time after that he messaged me asking me if I could lend him a suitcase. I told him the one I have would be too small for what he asked for and he asked me to maybe bring one from my family's home and I told him I'd check but I wouldn't be there for the next two weeks. he then kept repeating how I should check there and bring one for him and I told him I'll check next time I'm there and then he just said "finally you get it" and like I got it from the beginning, I just told him it won't happen as quickly as he wanted it to.

anyway, he's not from my country but he studies here and yesterday he approached me telling me how he's having a hard time because the language class clashes with another class he has to take but he needs a certain level until the end of the semester and if I couldn't meet with him once a week to practise for 15-30 minutes. I said sure and that we'd talk about the specific time. I then left for the rest of the day and was too exhausted to plan anything when I got home, especially since the earliest I'd do this would be Monday anyways. yesterday he sent me one message telling me he depends on me to find 30 minutes per week for him and called me by my name. and today he kept texting me which is okay, I understand he's stressed but I had classes the entire day and left to go home for the weekend immediately. he said if I can't make it to let him know so he can look for someone else and how he will never forget this from me. what bothered me though is how he just randomly sent me two messages writing my name but incorrectly.

it might be petty but he knows how to write my name, it's on my account and I don't know what his intentions are with that. i don't know, I don't feel too well anymore about the idea. he didn't do anything wrong per se but I don't know I just feel off and stressed every time I interact with him.. I'm considering just telling him one time slot in between my classes where I wouldn't have anything to do anyways and if that doesn't work to tell him he should look for someone else but I feel kinda bad doing that. but that's the only time slot in between classes I know I'll be free every week so it's the least stressful for me.

WIBTAH if I cancelled on him after all?