📝 WITAH if I help her cope

By Gus08-_- • Score: 30 • April 5, 2025 7:34 PM


So I, 16(M), have a bestie, 16(F). She is super funny and cool. She just told me that she found out her dad might have been cheating on her mom a few years back, and she had been carrying this for 8 years. I feel she is pretty sad, although she has not accepted the cheating part and thinks it's all a hallucination. I want to help her cope with it, or else she will carry it for the rest of her life. But I live in a different state. She thinks all of this is weird and she told me to think of her as the same person she was before telling me this. What should I do to help her cope with it so that she does not carry it for the rest of her life? Moreover, I want to help her in a way that she does not feel I like her, because I don't want to lead her on. Last October, she told me she liked me and I said I liked her too, but later changed my decision as I was super confused. I told her not to have hopes, and we fought through all of this problem and are stronger than ever now. We had very vocal communication about it. So all of this is over now. I don't want her to think I like her, so what should I do? WITA if I help her through this

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