This evening my husband was nice and offered me a foot rub while watching TV cause I had a long week of work, after I put our little one to bed. I offered to give him a back rub in return but he wanted a foot rub which was fine. While rubbing I notice a piece of painters tape on his toe and asked what was that about - turns out he had a big wort under there and thought nothing of it!

He was walking about our house all night with no slippers on. We have a baby who just learned to walk and is all over the floor. I immediately began thinking about my little baby getting them and not understanding why or the pain if the baby got worts and we needed to freeze them off.

I have PPA I believe in part, due to my husband’s general lackadaisical attitude. Just last week he left a pack of batteries out where baby could reach and I nearly had a panic attack. I have been nagging for weeks for him to just make a general doctor’s appointment because he is out of shape, and has questionable sun spots I am concerned about. I feel like it’s irresponsible to not be on top of health things if you have a family.

I am tired of working full time, paying all of the mortgage and household items, taking care of all of the babies needs, taking care of (nursing) baby alone at night, and feeling like my husband is another child I have to nag and has the audacity to catch an attitude with me. I have been really in the edge lately and have begged for help. The wort thing made me snap and I called him stupid and selfish and told him things like this is why we won’t work out. AITAH?