I 20(FtM) recently had to get two surgeries in my right hip after struggling to walk for over a year from injuries I got in a car accident. My hip was fractured and i suffered a labrum tear and had to get my IT band released so I could use my hip again. Unfortunately that means that I’m still in a lot of pain and I need help to do most things while in recovery (get up and down, getting dressed, washing hair, making food etc.), Because of this my bf 24(m) has had to pick up a second job and work really hard to take care of me until my family comes back into town to help. Which leads me to neither of us have gotten a significant amount of sleep since this has started as the pain keeps me up and occasionally i need to get up in the middle of the night do go to the bathroom, whip wakes him up as well. My bf has always liked to listen to a specific youtuber to help him get to sleep. Normally I won’t say anything about because we’re usually in his bed and I could sleep longer. Now since my surgeries it’s been nearly impossible for me to sleep as any small thing will wake me up, especially the youtube. Usually he will turn on the sleep timer so it will shut off on its own after an hour but i’m getting tired of waiting for it to shut off. It’s been making me extremely irritable that i’m constantly in pain and there’s constant noise keeping me up. However i know he uses it to help him sleep and that he hasn’t gotten much sleep from working 2 jobs and helping me. Would i be the AH if i asked my bf to stop playing youtube videos at night?