So I just found out my fiance of 1 year has racked up at least 30,000 in debt without me knowing. Hind sight I should have maybe known but she makes at least twice what I do . This came to light from a mutual friend . My fiance has been planning a group vacation with at least 10 couples and just today i found out it is totally false . She has yet to respond to multiple attempts to call / text her and I am totally in the dark on how this happened. What do I do ? She has taken thousands of dollars from mutual friends and now I feel responsible for paying everyone back but I can't afford to . She is someone I never ever expected this from and love dearly but now I have no idea who she is .