So tonight my husband and I brought our 1 month old baby to his parents house. Everything is going well and I am having a couple drinks with his family and we are having a good time. It went kind of downhill quick when his grandma started throwing up everywhere. Things get chaotic and all of the sudden I don’t know where my baby is, I say “hey where’s the baby???” And someone says “oh they brought him in the bedroom.” So I immediately go to the bedroom door which is closed and go to open it. It is LOCKED. My one month old is locked in the bedroom with I don’t even know who. I panicked right away and start jiggling the doorknob going “hello?hello???” They open the door and it is my husbands 14 and 16 year old cousins ( girls) In the room holding my baby. Turns out the oldest one (who was holding him at the time) has an intense fear of vomit and has some sort of trauma attached to that, and just kind of freaked out and ran to the room and locked it. Which, even though it wasn’t smart of her, she is just a kid and didn’t mean any harm so of course so I understand. No big deal. His cousins are sweet girls. Just please don’t do that again. Fast forward to later tonight,we get home and my husband mentions to me oh yeah, when grandma started throwing up, Samantha (the cousin holding my baby) ran OUT OF THE APARTMENT WITH THE BABY before I noticed. He was trying to help his grandma, and so instead of telling me, he told his aunt to go get her. THEM. First off, AITA for being upset that he didn’t tell me instead of his aunt??? ( who I JUST MET BTW.) I feel that I should have been the first person he ran to in that situation. He is now upset with me because I am “overreacting” now and he didn’t tell me because he didn’t want me to freak out. I didn’t tell or anything. I just said you should have told me, not your aunt. And he doesn’t agree. AND he is also upset that I jiggled the doorknob so “over the top” and that I overreacted to my baby being locked in there where I can’t reach him. He says he feels like I don’t trust his family. So please, AITA?? My postpartum hormones have been off the charts, so please tell me I’m not crazy. Or tell me that I am so I can apologize for being irrational and have this whole thing be over with!!!