📝 AITA for being honest with my “bf”about a trip I am taking

By Lanky_Heart1886 • Score: 1 • April 11, 2025 6:25 AM


A few months ago my bf of 6 years on and off decided to break up with me the day of the Super Bowl through the phone because I was upset he was already late to our plans and bailing. He broke up with me very dramatically made it seem like he was unsure we'd ever even be friends. I cried for weeks and to cheer myself up I bought tickets to a festival out of state to give myself a vacation and visit family/friends along the way. He ended up asking to talk and we have been hanging out and stuff again but he says we aren't together. I told him 2 weeks ago in texts I have this trip booked and ready to go to this festival. He didn't really acknowledge it and he hardly communicates through text with me since break up I doubt he even reads mine. Yesterday he asked me why I was taking off so much time from work coming up and I said " I told you, I'm going to the festival and traveling"

He interrogated me about him not understanding the text in which I explained all of this and then started to yell at me and wouldn't let me talk and explain that I had planned this during our break up that he said was forever. He wants to go to this festival but doesn’t have a job rn, is broke, and broke his phone, and isn't going and has had fomo about it for a few weeks now. I didn't want to lie about going so I told him the truth although I was afraid this would happen. He screamed at me told me to have a great trip and good bye forever and to fuck off and hung up. When I called him back he said if I call again he will definitely never talk to me again and was saying I'm annoying the fuck out of him and don’t respect him. He's M35 n I'm F27

This morning I woke up unable to listen to our playlist because he went on Spotify on his TV and blocked me (he doesn't have a phone or computer rn so this had to be the way) he also blocked me on his house phone.

AITA for simply telling him the truth about my trip that I am going on and planned while we were not together and I was expecting us to Never even be friends again because that's what HE said he wanted?

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